Saturday, January 12, 2008

Enhance Your Life With Gratitude

Have we forgotten how to be grateful? Maybe you are asking, "Whatdo I have to be grateful for?" Be grateful for the small thingsin life. If you ate breakfast this morning you are better offthan the 800 million people worldwide who will go hungry today. Most of us underestimate the power of gratitude. As we constantlystrive to add more and more to our lives it is easy to forgetabout being grateful for things and talents we already possess.Making gratitude a habit will enrich your whole outlook on life,even in the most turbulent circumstances. What we focus on grows. The more we focus on what we appreciate,the more we will have to appreciate! Gratitude is a learned skill that must be practiced daily todevelop its full potential. Practicing gratitude does not requireelaborate rituals or a huge amount of spiritual awareness; simplytaking a few moments to note every time something goes right isenough.

At first this may take a conscious effort, but as the habit takesroot, seeing things to be thankful for becomes as natural asbreathing. Although grateful people tend to be happier people, beinggrateful is not the same as being happy. When life is turning outall wrong, being grateful allows you to focus on that ray ofsunshine coming through. It allows you to take an honest look ata situation and say, "even in this there is reason to hope." Do not confuse being grateful with settling for less. Gratitudeshould never interfere with your efforts to improve and grow.Expressing gratitude simply gives you a better outlook on life,making it easier to attract the true happiness you deserve. Byfocusing attention on what is going right, more things work outfor the best. Be grateful even for the trials in life.

Your trials are what made you the person you are today. It is those very same trials that you strong enough to cope with the difficulties in life. A big problem in today's world is that we have been conditionedto think we have to live a certain way, look a certain way andhave certain things just to maintain a status quo. If we don'tthen we should be dissatisfied. While dissatisfaction can be agreat motivator, without action or personal effort it only leadsto frustration, anger and bitterness. Grateful people have a way of looking at the misfortunes andfailures in their lives and turning them into opportunities.These opportunities may not be readily apparent at first, butwhen the pain and frustration have passed, there they are. Everycloud has a silver lining if only we take the time to look.

You don't have to wait for good things to occur to expressgratitude. Gratitude does not mean jumping for joy abouteverything in your life, but rather, that you see and take noteof whatever is put before you. It means taking advantage of everyopportunity that comes your way, whether presented as fortune ormisfortune. Enhance your life. Take a few moments right now and actively notice things you can be grateful for.

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